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Raybourne "Ray" Marler, 87, of Dittmer, formerly of Farmington, celebrated a life filled with music, racing, laughter, and family, passing away peacefully on December 26, 2025, in Daytona Beach, Florida, surrounded by his loved ones. Born on June 24, 1938, in Bonne Terre, Missouri, to the late Hersel and Mabel (Richeson) Marler, Ray was a cherished figure in his community, leaving behind a legacy of joy and creativity.
Ray's journey began in 1956, when he graduated as a Valedictorian from Esther High School. He later pursued his passion for knowledge at the School of Mines in Rolla. With a heart full of ambition, Ray joined his father in Marler's Music Store, after it opened in 1951, which continues to thrive today in Park Hills, showcasing his dedication to the world of music. His entrepreneurial spirit also led him to become partners with Kenny Schrader at I-55 Raceway in Pevely. Ray also earned a place in the Hall of Fame for dirt racing, which he was very proud of.
Beyond his professional accomplishments, Ray’s true joy was in his family. He made lasting memories during his annual fishing trips to Canada and many hours of operating the racetrack surrounded by his children and grandchildren. He also shared his musical talents for 25 years, playing the organ for the First Church of the Nazarene in Farmington, enriching the lives of many through his melodious contributions.
Ray was known for his playful spirit, often sharing laughter and camaraderie with fellow members of the Lions Club in Park Hills, where he was known for light-hearted pranks that brought joy to all. He also served on church boards, The Chamber of Commerce, and tourism boards.
He was preceded in death by his parents and son, Craig.
Ray is survived by his devoted wife, Sue Marler, whom he was set to celebrate 60 years of marriage with on January 21, 2026; son David "Chip" Marler and wife Shelly; daughters, Shari Stanfill, Regina Diehn and husband Mark; granddaughters, Amanda Bosler and Sheena Stanfill; grandsons, Jermey (Stacy) Marler, Nick (Chelsea) Marler, Zach (Kady) Stanfill, Dustin Stanfill, Clayton Stanfill and Bradley Stanfill (Jayden); several great-grandchildren; one great-great-grandchild on the way; siblings, Dr. Robert “Bob” Marler and wife Deb; and Alan Marler; special friends Mark Stanfill, Ken and Ann, Brian and Jennifer, countless other friends from all corners of the world; nieces, nephews and other family members also survive.
Visitation will be held at C.Z. Boyer and Son Funeral Home in Desloge, Sunday, January 4, 2026, from 3:00 PM until 8:00 PM. The visitation will resume, Monday, January 5, 2026, from 9:00 AM until the time of service at 11:00 AM. Pastor Van Williams, Pastor Brad Adams and Chaplain Tim Bozarth will be officiating. Interment will follow at Hillview Memorial Gardens in Farmington. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed in honor of Ray’s memory to First Baptist Church of House Springs 4375 Gravois Rd. House Springs, MO 63051 or donor’s charity of choice.
As we come together to celebrate Ray Marler’s extraordinary life, we remember a man who brought music, racing, love, and laughter into the world, leaving an indelible mark on the hearts of many. He will be deeply missed but fondly remembered for the vibrant spirit he shared with all.
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